HEAR WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN
If a man wants you, nothing can keep
him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can
make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and
his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save
you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a
relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find
what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the
man was not treating you as you
deserve then heck no, you can't 'be
friends'.A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along,
then he probably is
Don't stay because you think 'it
will get better'
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for
staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a
relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by
a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them
pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate
from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything.* He will use
it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior.* Change
comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more
important than you are...
Even if he has more education or in
a better job.
Do not make him into a
quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more
nothing less.
Never let a man define who you
are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
A man will only treat you the way you
ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all
the bending...
Compromise is two way
street.
You need time to heal between
relationships...
There is nothing cute about
baggage...
Deal with your issues before pursuing a
new relationship
You should never look for
someone to COMPLETE you...
A relationship consists of two WHOLE
individuals...
Look for someone complimentary...not
supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn
out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man
always know where you are,
and you're always readily available to him -
he takes it for granted
Never move into his mother's house. Never
co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give
you everything that you need.*
Keep him in your radar but get to
know others.
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot
of women stay in relationships that are abusive or
hurtful: Dr. Phil
You should know that:
You're the best thing that could ever happen
to anyone and if a man
mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing.
If he was attracted to
you in the 1st place, just know that he's
not the only one.
They're all watching you, so you have a
lot of choices.
Make the right one.
Ladies take care of your own
hearts....
Share this with other women and men (just
so they know)...
You'll make someone smile, another rethink her
choices, and another woman prepare.
